Monday, January 25, 2016

The 7 Habits of highly Affected People

 Habit 1: Be Proactive

“Habit 1 is the key to unlocking all the other habits and that’s why it comes first. It says, “I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I’m responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver’s seat of my destiny, not just a passenger.”


I think this quote is saying Is that Let no one like no one tell you to do things under there command do you, and you should choose your own attitude, we should be all responsible for our own happiness and unhappiness when mistakes our on us. Take control like the driver not just some passenger. 

“As soon as I became proactive in producing my own stuff, I started getting other roles.
 
This quote is stating that now that stood up for what I want and not letting people control me I’m going to do me for now on. There is not going to be a driver taking me where i dont want to its on me to make myself happy and satisfied. 




  Habit 2: Begin with the end in mind
   “Control your own destiny or someone else will.” (Jack Welch)

This quote is saying that if you let people control you that means they have you under their wing. You have to switch it up and control your own destiny because once you can’t there is not going back to that unless you stand up for what are right and let people control you.

“Sometimes a mistake can end up being the best decision you ever made.”

This quote is saying that maybe when you think bad about something that you think it’s hard or embarrassing why not try? Who cares what others think right!? I had to learn the hard way I would always ask people if that shirt  was ugly or cute when I actually thought it was cute when they said it wasn’t I was just attached to people’s ideas and not mine …your opinion  matters ..We matter.


  Habit 3: Put first things first  
                        
“Organize and execute around priorities.”

I think this quote means that …for example if you want to become a business person or a customer service person the first priority would be to be organize, at times you have to put the things that go first like a puzzle you might start from middle but the best way would be to start from the corners and work your way in.

“The key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities. “

This quote is exactly what I just said about the jobs put everything that you need to do in that job first so when you get it your good and etc.



Habit 4: Think Win-Win

“Think win-win or no deal.”

I think this quote means that you need to think positive that you’re going to win and take the chance and not be so negative about yourself.

“Strong people don’t put others down…they lift them up.”



This quote is pretty much saying that we need haters out there to motivate us. Because I know when a girl try’s to compete with me in a bad way I end up being motivated and just doing me and not care what they are telling me.



Habit 5: Seek First to Understand then to be understood

   “Diagnose before you prescribe.”

I think this quote means that you need to check yourself before you wreck yourself and make sure you’re not  diagnose with anything, and make sure when they prescribe you a medicine make sure that you’re not allergic to anything and they give you.

“The fact that your patient gets well does not prove that your diagnose was right.”

This Quote means that just because your doctor knows you very well and gave you the correct medicine ..don’t flatter yourself and make sure that medicine is good for you and very healthy in other words.


Habit 6: Synergize

The whole is greater than the sum of its parts (1+1=3)

I think this quote means that what people can accomplish working together is more than they could accomplish each working individually. Everyone has strengths, but when you put those strengths together, they produce something more than the individuals could alone.



Synergy is better than my way or your way. It's our way.

This quote means that it’s not my or your way that its good our way together is better.



Habit 7: Sharpen the saw

Four Dimensions of self-renewal: Physical, Mental, Spiritual, Social/Emotional

Here are some examples of physical: eat right, laugh never cry, yoga, sports ect..

Here are some examples of mental: read, give yourself some time alone, get a pet, music, ect

Here are some examples of spiritual: journaling, watch movies, prayer, take long walks, go ahead and clean ect…

Social and emotional: smile, go shop, Apologize,


If you could do some of these your already starting to become a SAW A SHARPEN SAW…..


Reflection: I belive that we should all follow these 7 habits in some time in our lifes because, you need to be atleast different in some way that you and peole love. If you do these 7 habits for others than your starting off pretty good but put yourself first before others. 


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