how the internet works

What i learned about the kahn Academy was that viruses can come in many ways, but usually it comes from humans making accidents, it's also because when your computer pops up an ad saying to sign into your gmail and you sign in hackers could automatically hack everything. If your computer were to get a virus it's possible for other laptops or computers to get it also it’s just like a cold when people get sick. Have you ever wonder like how does my phone send messages and use internet without cords like other phones well that's call radio, in phones we don't use cords but we do use radio waves that send messages and phone calls either in satellite or in big towers which is  complicated if you're not next to one you might lose signal. If you are sending  a picture to a friend there are little bits that make up a picture, the numbers that they use are 0 and 1.

10 keys to personal power

Key 1: Clarity

“Have vision. Determine what you want to be, do or have in life. Have a sense of direction and know where you’re going. If you do not have clear specific goals in life, you are doomed forever to work for others who do.”

I think this quote means that  you need to stand up for what you want in life, first you have to plan out what you want to do in your life before you make any plans for it. If you don’t make a decision maybe you are doomed to work for others who do.

“One advantage in keeping a diary is that you become aware with reassuring clarity of the changes which you constantly suffer.”

This quote is explaining the same thing as the first key…if you don’t make plans like in a diary then it might be too late for you to have a future that you want in life because if you don’t that’s suffer and lost.

Key 2: Competence

“If you commit to excellence, opportunities will always come your way. The harder you work, the better you get.”

I think this means that if you work super hard like in school always trying your best you will get opportunities I life for a good start. And if you work harder than what you do the better and greater things you will get instead of good opportunities.

“No human being will work hard at anything unless they believe that they are working for competence.”

What this quote is saying is that no one will never try hard …maybe I’m wrong but let’s be honest you would only work hard if you’re getting well paid for it, or having opportunities people don’t understand that maybe if you do work harder every other day you will get better things and opportunities for yourself.

Key 3: Concentration

“Make the best use of your time. Ask yourself “Is this the best us of my time?” before you start anything.”

I think this quote means that before you actually plan out your life and already starting to have you dream job …first go check it out if that’s what you actually want to do when you get older because once it’s too late there’s no turning back.. You could but why quit through all; that college classes to get there for nothing.. You’re just making your life miserable into something you wanted but never had the chance to go and see if that job is for you.

Key 4: Common Sense

Ø  Train your mind

Ø  Think things through

Ø  Listen to your intuition

Ø  Learn from seatbacks

I think this means you need to make these steps in order if you want to think straight before you do anything else in life. 

Key 5: Creativity

“Except the fact that every human being is a genius. The hallmark of creativity is asking questions. The people who are most creative ask the most questions.”

This quote is explaining that people that are more out there in society with ideas and likes to have their own imagination wild are the ones that ask many questions to be better.

Key 6: Consideration

“The quality of your relationships with other people will determine your success in life.”

“Develop the people skills you need to become a better communicator. Take courses in listening, speaking, etc.”

“If you were to learn one new word a day, within 5 years, you’ll be the best educated person in history.”

I think these 3 quotes mean that in order for you to be the greatest in the world you have to challenge yourself to do many things that you haven’t tried like learning a new word every day is a good challenge to start.

Key 7: Consistency
“Dependable, steady predictable work is always superior to fast spurts of work.”

Be consistent in your relationships, your family, friends, your boss, your work. Be the person that people can depend upon. That if you say you’ll do something you do it…”

 I think this quote means that you should always treat others with respect with the same way you want to be treated, and if you told someone that you were going to do something keep that promise.

"Trust is built with Consistency"

This means in order for you to get trust from others you need to built good strong bonds with that person,."

Key 8: Commitment 
"No success is possible without commitment. The ability to commitment to yourself whole heartily is the basis of achieving all success."
"Become totally absorbed in your work. Be totally committed."
I think this means that ....

Key 9 : Courage 


"The fear of failure is the single greatness reason for failure in life."

I think this quote means that don't be afraid to do something that you think you will fail, i think you should just stay as positive  as possible and you will have a higher chance to do more stuff without hesitating. 

"In order to carry a positive action we must develop here a positive vision."
This quote means that its better to think positive but see it first in your eyes, so you know how good it feels to accomplish something, and that will motivate you to do better.

Key 10: Confidence 

''You only get confidence by doing things over and over again."
This quote means that you should never estimate yourself to not do the things you cant do never give up it just makes you more confident to do better each day and learn from your mistakes.  

Reflection: This can benefit me by actually knowing what to plan before I’m alone in this world like what am I going to do after High School so I would need to plan it out first instead of making choices at the last minute. I would need to do my best in school work hard for myself not for others because there not always going to be there for you by yourself.  If I already know what I’m going to be after high school I should take the time to go see that dream job of mine if that is actually what I want to in my life other than wasting time trying to be someone that I’m not. I’m planning to stay on key 3 concertation, because I want to see if my dream job is right for me and fun in other words. 

Reflection: I think i've learned a lot through this 10 keys because you should always be truthful to others and yourselfs. you shouldn't learn the hard way just be a positive person with positive actions

The 7 Habits of highly Affected People

 Habit 1: Be Proactive

“Habit 1 is the key to unlocking all the other habits and that’s why it comes first. It says, “I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I’m responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver’s seat of my destiny, not just a passenger.”

I think this quote is saying Is that Let no one like no one tell you to do things under there command do you, and you should choose your own attitude, we should be all responsible for our own happiness and unhappiness when mistakes our on us. Take control like the driver not just some passenger. 

“As soon as I became proactive in producing my own stuff, I started getting other roles.”
 

This quote is stating that now that stood up for what I want and not letting people control me I’m going to do me for now on. There is not going to be a driver taking me where i dont want to its on me to make myself happy and satisfied. 

  Habit 2: Begin with the end in mind

   “Control your own destiny or someone else will.” (Jack Welch)

This quote is saying that if you let people control you that means they have you under their wing. You have to switch it up and control your own destiny because once you can’t there is not going back to that unless you stand up for what are right and let people control you.

“Sometimes a mistake can end up being the best decision you ever made.”

This quote is saying that maybe when you think bad about something that you think it’s hard or embarrassing why not try? Who cares what others think right!? I had to learn the hard way I would always ask people if that shirt  was ugly or cute when I actually thought it was cute when they said it wasn’t I was just attached to people’s ideas and not mine …your opinion  matters ..We matter.

  Habit 3: Put first things first  

                        

“Organize and execute around priorities.”

I think this quote means that …for example if you want to become a business person or a customer service person the first priority would be to be organize, at times you have to put the things that go first like a puzzle you might start from middle but the best way would be to start from the corners and work your way in.

“The key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities. “

This quote is exactly what I just said about the jobs put everything that you need to do in that job first so when you get it your good and etc.



Habit 4: Think Win-Win

“Think win-win or no deal.”

I think this quote means that you need to think positive that you’re going to win and take the chance and not be so negative about yourself.

“Strong people don’t put others down…they lift them up.”

This quote is pretty much saying that we need haters out there to motivate us. Because I know when a girl try’s to compete with me in a bad way I end up being motivated and just doing me and not care what they are telling me.

Habit 5: Seek First to Understand then to be understood

   “Diagnose before you prescribe.”

I think this quote means that you need to check yourself before you wreck yourself and make sure you’re not  diagnose with anything, and make sure when they prescribe you a medicine make sure that you’re not allergic to anything and they give you.

“The fact that your patient gets well does not prove that your diagnose was right.”

This Quote means that just because your doctor knows you very well and gave you the correct medicine ..don’t flatter yourself and make sure that medicine is good for you and very healthy in other words.

Habit 6: Synergize

The whole is greater than the sum of its parts (1+1=3)

I think this quote means that what people can accomplish working together is more than they could accomplish each working individually. Everyone has strengths, but when you put those strengths together, they produce something more than the individuals could alone.

Synergy is better than my way or your way. It's our way.

This quote means that it’s not my or your way that its good our way together is better.

Habit 7: Sharpen the saw

Four Dimensions of self-renewal: Physical, Mental, Spiritual, Social/Emotional

Here are some examples of physical: eat right, laugh never cry, yoga, sports ect..

Here are some examples of mental: read, give yourself some time alone, get a pet, music, ect

Here are some examples of spiritual: journaling, watch movies, prayer, take long walks, go ahead and clean ect…

Social and emotional: smile, go shop, Apologize,

If you could do some of these your already starting to become a SAW A SHARPEN SAW…..

Reflection: I belive that we should all follow these 7 habits in some time in our lifes because, you need to be atleast different in some way that you and peole love. If you do these 7 habits for others than your starting off pretty good but put yourself first before others. 

The Three fundamental techniques in handling people

                             Three Fundamental Techniques in handling people

Technique 1: Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.

“If you want to gather honey, don’t kick over the beehive.”

I think this first technique is really true all though that everyone does this at a point, but some people don’t need to criticize others by the way that they look ...if those people who criticize others don’t like it when people talk about them they should stop. Usually mostly everyone that I know complains about many things either the phone food, places they don’t like,ect…

Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation

“The big secret in dealing with people”

I think this quote means that it’s good to deal with people the right way if you want to get to know them better, or like if you having trouble talking with that person because you don’t know how they are, for me I like to know that person first so when they need advice ill know exactly what to do and tell them.

“When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion.”

I think what this quote is saying is that some of us humans don’t like to treat others like normal people they treat them with logic, instead of creatures of emotion because everyone has emotions at some point



Technique 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want.

“He who can do this has the whole world with him. He, who cannot, walks a lonely way.”

I think this quote means that he who can do this meaning like a sport or something like that has the world to him meaning cheering him on and on, and he would never walk alone.

“I think my desire to imagine a future for this site came out of trying to come to terms with the emotions that day aroused.”

This quote is saying that you need to Aroused while you are thinking about your future ,because once your late then you’re going to panic more

I’ve learned to not judge people by their looks because, once you get to know them they are actually pretty good people to talk to and give good advice and will probably be there when you need them. I recently made a new friend I honestly didn’t like her at first because of what I heard but that isn’t right until I met and actually talked to her she was really sweet and we are becoming closer as we talk to each other. The best way in handling people is also being honest with one another because if you actually want to be there friend lying is not going to be the solution in the future when they find out all about it.

During my break I did many things especially with my family I spend time with them during the holidays such as Christmas Eve and New Year’s Eve. Since I got a lot of money during Christmas I went to the malls I bought shoes clothes anything that I wanted I went to the movie theaters, bowling, johns incredible pizza, knots, I went to the Ellen show. I met Ellen Degeneres and leonardo dicaprio that’s practically all I met so far that I didn’t know .Ive watched the movie “Sisters” and “Maze Runner 2”.I would played basketball with a friend when I go over with family at times . 

  

six ways to make people like you

             “Six ways to make people like you”

 Rule1: Become genuinely interested in other people.

Reflection:  If you would do this by becoming genuinely interested in others I’m pretty sure you will be accepted anywhere you go. If you do that than you don’t have to worry anymore about making friends in two years or more when you can get new friends in just two months it’s that easy. It’s best if you ask questions to others about what they like to do nothing about you make sure to keep conversation clear and simple.

“Experts on romance say for a happy marriage there has to be more than a passionate love. For a lasting union, they insist, there must be a genuine liking for each other. Which in my book, it’s a good definition for friendship.

I think that this quote means that instead of talking about just love for each other have the time to actually communicate with that partner of yours, because without communication its like you would hardly know who that person is , someone told me communication is key in relationships which is pretty true. You don’t want to just talk about yourself talk about them and if they like it then that’s all that matters to them.

Rule:2  Smile

1)”Actions Speak Louder than Words, and a smile says, “I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you.”

2)”You don’t feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile.”

3)”It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends.”

Reflection: I think by those quotes it means that Action does really speak louder than words because, it’s like me saying I’m going to do my best for this class next thing you know your slacking it again all you do is talk about what your going to do but why not do that make an action and do your best for yourself. If you’re having a bad day don’t forget to smile because that will just bring you down, if your hurt after a breakup just smile so he/she won’t get to you, and if you don’t want to smile why not make people smile.

“Don’t cry because it`s over. Smile because it happened. –Dr. Seuss

I think this quote is saying that just because, something happened to you which was very tragic don’t bring yourself down and just smile the pain away, because someone recently told me don’t cry because when you cry your telling that person that hurt you happy just smile at them and they won’t bother again.

Rule 3:  Remember Names

1. “A man’s name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language.”

2.”If you don’t remember names, you are headed for trouble.”

Reflection: Everyone of course has a name; to me my name is important it tells me who are calling me by my name instead of another, It’s important to know your name good once you start to get older I learned to say my name when I was about 3 or so, it’s important to many people. It’s good to know what your friends names are its sad how people don’t know my name when they ask for stuff it’s like they call me by another name when I know there’s. If you don’t know any friend’s names and they know yours you’re getting into some trouble and might lose them as a friend or simply say I forgot your name I’m sorry what was it, instead of saying ay girl ay boy.

“At my age the only problem is with remembering names. When I call everyone darling, it has damn all to do with passionately adoring them, but I know I’m safe calling them that. Although, of course, I adore them too.”

I think this quote means that am not just forgetting their names because I don’t like the person I just have so much in my head. I only remember the ones that I love or like known since I was very little. Yet I call some girl darling or thanks doll, instead of their name.

  How to remember names   

 1. Trust yourself into remember those names

2.     See their faces easy to identify   3 Use sound tricks by repeating     the name over and over

4 Tell them if you pronounced it correctly   5.See the spelling visually 
                                                 6.Write it down

7. Keep recorded on social media or so

Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

1. “If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener.”

2. “Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his problems than he is in you and your problems.

Reflection: I think these quotes mean that if your already a good listener with that one person you talk to , you sure should be a good conversationalist because, by then you already know how they are with you and you might know everything about them so it makes it easier for you to talk to them. This other quote means that if you see the guy that you like is only talking about his life about his problems he just needs someone to talk about them but why start like that he should be listening to your problems or asking how was your  day today, I don’t like selfish people who just thinks about themselves because that tells you he won’t put you first hell put himself then you second place.

“The opposite of talking isn’t listening. The opposite of talking is waiting.”

I think this quote means that you need to hear the silence of your mouth half of the time and let your partner answer your questions don’t talk about yourself all the time only when they ask.

How to active Listening!
1. stay focused, be patient
2. really listen
3. Allow of periods of silence
4. From time to time reapeat the persons words in your head
5. Understand the emotions behind the words



Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man’s interest

“The royal road to a man’s heart is to talk to him about things he treasures most.”

      Reflection: I think this quote means that if you want to start a serious relationship with a man you have to not just talk about yourself all the time actually never talk about yourself only if he asks you then go ahead but other than that no. I also think its best if you know what he likes first do you could continue to talk about the things that he treasures it will make him feel like you’re the perfect girl for talking about this. You might even do research on the stuff he treasures or likes a lot you will be more of just friends.

“The true secret of happiness lies in taking a genuine interest in all the details of daily life.”

     I think this quote means that to be interested in others treasures and don’t  talk about yourself to much.

Rule 6: Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely

“The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature.”

“Helping people feel important and appreciate works magic.”

I think these quotes mean that Its always kind and very sweet if someone mostly cared about you instead of themselves 24 7. To me having to make someone feel important is that I do many good things for them on their birthdays hang out with them and usually just talk about them even they have problems or so.

1. Make a note of the important events in her life and ask her how the events went.
2. Give them time .
3. Praise her in front of other people.
4. In a group setting, ask her to tell her favorite story.
5. If she’s telling a story to a group and she gets cut off for some reason, be the first person to ask her to continue telling it.
6. Ignore their tiredness. Nobody wants to be told that they have dark rings under their eyes or that they look like they just woke up.
7. After meeting someone new, follow up the next day with an email or handwritten note.
8. When you first call her/him on the phone, ask if it’s a good time for them to talk.
9. If, while talking on the phone, you hear something going on in the background, ask her if she needs to attend to it.
10. Don’t multi-task while you’re on the phone. She’ll be able to tell.
11. Send her a link that you think would interest her.
12. Write her a thank-you note.
13. Connect her with someone else you know who might be able to help her.
14. Wait for a full second or two before replying to something she says. This shows that your response is a thoughtful one.
15. Don’t play with your cell phone while you’re with her. At the very least, put your phone on the table with the screen facing down.
16. If you’re working at your laptop when she comes to talk to you, close your laptop. If you can’t do that for some reason, at least make it clear that she has your undivided attention.
17. Buy her a gift for no apparent reason.
18. Write a blog post and dedicate it to her.
19. When she’s/hes explaining her problem to you, listen intently without offering any solutions or advice.
20. Never tell her/him that she “shouldn’t feel that way.” This invalidates her/his feelings.
21. Give her a big smile when you see her. Show her that her presence makes your day.
22. Tell her “Good job!” when she/he does something well.
23. Tell her you’re proud of her/him.
24. Ask her/him to teach you something.
25. Remember the names of the people close to her or him.

Reflection:

I now know that I shouldn’t even be talking about myself all the time when I’m with someone I should just talk about what they like or love. To me I feel selfish for not knowing that, but now I could change And be a better conversationist  to others. These 6 ways are actually pretty good advice to make people like you for you, and if they don’t like that then now you know they aren’t the right people for you.